Let's do the math

So in researching the Husky guidelines (CT state insurance), a family of 6 including single mother, can make up to $55,400 and qualify.  IF tbj paid every last penny of child support court ordered every week for a year, we would receive $33,000.  AND we are a family of 9 (8 minor children).  Doesn't quite add up to me, especially considiering I make about $75 a month substitute teaching.  So why did I just receive a letter in the mail stating I lost our insurance to to our excessive income?!

Very good question and no answer on Monday when I called DSS and left a message, or Wednesday when I called again, nor on Thursday and Friday when I called yet again and again.  Guess I'll have to make an appearance after my Dr.'s appt. on Monday, hope it's covered.

Here's some more math: this month tbj has confirmed and showed to all Kidsafe visits, at a cost of $1075, he paid $300 to file the lawsuit (yep, he filed it), and he paid $250 for the sherriff to bring it to my home and hand it to my child.  That's over $1600 the children (all 11 of them) could have used for college expenses, uncovered medical expenses, clothes, shoes, school supplies, extra food, you name it.  How selfish can one person be?

Here's even more math: it's been 3 1/2 months since he was ordered to set up counseling, that's 107 days that he couldn't pick up the phone, to save the youngest three hours of torture, and to comply with his court order.  Hopefully our motion will come up soon. 

Back in the day we had tv, there was some kid's show which would always end with, "This is the song that never ends,..."  Can't think of which one at the moment, but it sure describes my life.